OSSM (ôsm) animals

This campus is pretty pet friendly. Mops is free to go most places (even to Chris' office!), which is nice since she had to give up her back yard and can only roam leash free when the students aren't going to be outside. But she's not warming up to the students like we wanted. She's most likely headed to obedience school soon.

Mops isn't the only animal with privileges. The assistant dorm supervisor who lives on the first floor boys has two huskies (don't remember their names right now). We've had one encounter with them and Mops and it wasn't pretty so we haven't been around them very much. They are gorgeous, but don't think they get out enough. Dr. Dodd has two westies that frequent campus and if you're an alum you'll probably remember Fred and Grady. Lori the PR person has two dogs, Chloe, a chocolate lab, and Nick, a pooshi (poodle-shih tzu mix). The librarian brings her sheepdog, Vladimir. He's very sweet, but we have to watch him around Elle because he likes to herd small things. The receptionist also brings her chihuahua, Itsy. Since the campus is so large several hawks, owls, bunnies, and other wild things can also be found hanging around.

Daily Life

OK, I really am going to blog more often. The last few weeks have been really crazy though. I thought you might want to know a little bit about the daily life here at OSSM. The students generally get up and eat breakfast between 6:30 and 8:00 am. The juniors have to be out of the dorms by 8:00 and the seniors have to be out by 8:45. They are all usually in the MAC (Manning Academic Center), the library, or the science building throughout the day. Some students come back to the dorms for lunch or to switch books periodically. A lot of the kids don't get a formal lunch break because of their class schedules, especially now that foreign language classes have started, so the cafeteria sends over sack lunches and they eat in the student lounge. The seniors usually get out of school around 3:30 and the juniors get out around 4:00. Students have free time until 8:00 pm, which starts mandatory study time. But free time is limited because students have P.E. in the evenings one night a week, dinner is 5:30-6:30, and this week fine arts classes start. Some students are also put on early check-in (7:00 pm) if their grades are low. (Rumors are thanks to Chris many more students will be on this list.) All students have mandatory study time from 8:00-10:00 pm. They can study in the Great Hall, their common areas, or their rooms. If they're in their room they have to prop their doors. If they need to go to bed early they just have to tell someone. Then everyone has lights out at 11:00.

This is pretty much what most days are like. Some Saturdays students have tests so study time and lights out are the same. Some weekends are called "Open" weekends, which means they don't have tests. Some kids go home and some stay. They don't have study time Friday and Saturday night. There are van trips on these Saturdays and the kids get taken to Walmart or Bricktown, and one other place that escapes me now. They just have to have at least 4 people that want to go and have to sign up early. If kids go home they have to check in by Sunday night at 8. If the kids are there on the weekend they can also get transportation to church on Sundays. One weekend a month the students have to go home. They call this "Extended" weekend and classes are usually cancelled Mondays.

As for our family specifically... Chris is a state employee so he works 8-5. He usually has two classes a day. I still haven't figured out how often he has the same students. We usually all have lunch together at home. However, now that Elle is in school on Tuesdays and Thursdays I'm studying somewhere and we don't see him until we get back to campus. I spend MWF unpacking, doing chores, and entertaining Elle and Mops mostly. We usually eat dinner in the cafeteria so that we can socialize with the kids. Chris has dorm duty Sunday nights from 3:30 to 11, if the kids are there, and Tuesday nights 5-11. On these evenings we try to hang out with him in the Great Hall until study time. All professors have to spend one night tutoring during study time so Chris lumps this in on Tuesday nights. We also have to have floor meetings periodically so we'll do this with our floor at 10:30 before everyone goes to bed.

This is our life so far!

pizza/dance party

Earlier in the week the girls asked to have a pizza/dance party for the floor last night since it's Open Weekend. Open Weekend means no tests. They can check out if they want and go home for the weekend, but generally half of them stay. The girls were willing to pay for their pizza, but they can't order it themselves. Turns out there's also a rule we can't have pizza delivered. I offered to go get it for them as long as they turned the music off by 10 pm. I figured they may not last that long since they can't have boys on the floor. They decided to do pizza at 5 and then dance later because some people would be leaving. Today (Saturday) is Parent's Day for the juniors so almost all of our girls were here last night. Elle and I went and got the pizza and drinks after her nap. We're quickly learning to get around OKC, but the traffic is something I'm still adjusting to after Waco. We gave the girls some space and we ate in our apartment. We ended up ordering 8 large pizzas for 20 girls. Chris thought there would be pizza left over. Vivid memories of cheerleading sleepovers kept coming to mind and I knew they would eat it up. Sure enough they ate it all and I think some even went and got dinner in the cafe too.

We eventually got the volleyball out and got a good size group of students to play with us down at the sand volleyball courts. It was really fun and helped me get to know some of the boys since I don't get to interact with them much. It's really evident the students here are really good kids overall. Three of the girls from our floor actually offered to walk Mops and play with Elle. It was awesome and Elle really enjoyed them. Later we kept waiting for the dancing to start, but then quickly realized they had moved it down to the basement. You could here the music up in the Great Hall. Chris wasn't on duty, but he went down and checked on things a couple of times. A professor and her husband, who is also a counselor here, live on the 3rd floor and were on duty last night so every 5-10 minutes one of them would walk through. The mother hen in me worried a bit about them all being unchaperoned, but Chris said it looked pretty tame. He said most of them were dancing and when someone would come in they would step away from each other. They quit about 10 because they had to check-in and lights out was still 11. Guess the whole experience was good practice for parents of a daughter!

1st week romance

Apparently the love bug bites hard the first week. Couples are everywhere! We've seen a break up/get back together drama unfold over several days, some that are joined at the hip, and many puppy dog eyes. Are we all so transparent? We went to Bricktown Saturday night and kept running into couples on dates. I guess when you throw a bunch of teenagers together 24/7 something is bound to happen. It's not all roses and sunshine for everyone though. Chris went to the common room Saturday afternoon to read and there were a bunch of girls in one room. Suddenly one of them flew out of the room shouting, "Boys are stupid!" She then realized Chris was there and quickly said, "I didn't mean you Professor Shrock!" and then ran back into the room with a bunch of giggling.

Fire Alarm

So last night Elle fell asleep about 8:45. She was down until about 10:00 (when Chris and I were trying to go to bed) and then started fussing every 15 minutes or so. She's teething and stuffy, and I'm sure still adjusting to a new environment, but we haven't had a solid nights sleep since we got here and it's starting to wear on all of us. About this time Mops starts acting weird as well. She get shaking and running back into the living room or to Elle's door. She wouldn't stay in bed or settle down if she was in bed. So for about an hour I'm trying to get Elle to stay in her bed and Chris is dealing with Mops. The kids have mandatory study time from 8 pm to 10 pm and then lights out is 11 pm. A little after lights out ( just as Chris and I had gotten Elle to sleep, gotten Mops back in bed, and laid down) the fire alarm goes off. The alarm is so loud and the strobe lights are so bright! It's like firecrackers going off in the apartment. I immediately ran to Elle's room and picked her up, Chris corrals Mops, and we all run out the back door to the fire escape and out the door. Chris says he has to run in and get some stuff. Later on I realized it was his pants! I'm trying to keep Elle calm and get Mops to come close enough that I can grab her, but at this point the girls start coming out too. Mops is in total panic barking at everyone and I didn't grab my glasses so everything is fuzzy. The girls have to get over by the gate and line up by floor where the "House Mouse" (one of the seniors who has a list of everyone on the floor) takes role. The boys are on the other side of the dorms, which is a good thing since we were all in our pajamas. Chris came back out pretty quickly and grabbed Mops. The police showed up first and then the fire department. The police made the girls line back up for a head count. The boys were missing a couple of people for a while, but I haven't heard as to why yet. Eventually, the firefighters came out and they determined it was a malfunction in the system. (Earlier in the day they had been testing smoke alarms in the dorms, which may have caused a problem.) We came back in at 12:05 and Chris had to go let girls back into their room and make sure everyone was inside. Elle stayed calm throughout the whole thing and actually wound back down pretty quick. Needless to say she ended up sleeping in our bed.

Movin In, Movin On

We have almost made it through the first week. Chris has been so busy, but he seems to be enjoying it. Sunday night we met the girls on our floor and everyone seems so sweet. So far Mops doesn't really like anybody, but she doesn't bark at the noises anymore. Elle hasn't really warmed up to anyone either, but she does act like she likes it here. Unfortunately, she's not sleeping well yet. Hopefully, it's just cutting teeth and she'll get better soon. I've been trying to unpack, but Elle makes it go really slow. Chris has dorm duty Sunday and Tuesday nights and then two classes each day. He has almost all the juniors and seniors so he's pretty swamped with grading and class prep for now. My sister and her family were here the last two days so we ventured out to the zoo and to an awesome restaurant called Pops! that has really good burgers and 500+ kinds of pop. So far I think the blessings of being here are outweighing the negatives. The lists look like this:

positives:

close to family

mops has a huge yard to run around in

elle has a huge yard to run around in

lots of people are glad we're here

cooler weather (yes, i'm saying this about okc)

great zoo

a great place for chris to work

eating in the cafeteria if we want

no rent or utilities

mops can go to work with Chris

we can pop over and see Chris

short commute for Chris

Cheddar bites at Sonic

sprinklers for Elle to play in

Chris and I have our own offices

enough space for all our books

negatives:

taking Mops out to the bathroom

not enough space for all our stuff

a long walk to the car

In the beginning...

Today is move in day at the dorms! We peeked out the windows at 8:45 and there was already a line of parents and kids. Probably mostly juniors. Some seemed nervous and others looked excited. I don't know why I'm nervous for them! Elle and I only got to spend a few minutes in the common area before heading to church and now she's sleeping so we'll have to get acquainted at the library later this afternoon when they get their books. We're also going to eat dinner with them and then we'll have a floor meeting later. So far Chris said they are all really sweet and nice. We'll have a floor meeting tonight so we can get to know them a little better. Thus begins our adventure!